Compassion for Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse
Everyone deserves compassion, no matter what age they are.
In my psychic reading editorial
this week I'm writing about a recent talk-back radio program in Australia that ignored its societal obligation and failed to truly listen with an open heart when an elderly man reached out for emotional support.
Instead of receiving empathy and support, the old man was talked down to by a well known Australian radio commentator, who trivialised the man's feelings and made him feel that the traumatic problems he'd been dealing with all of his life, were insignificant.
I'll also share the things genuine Empaths
can do to help you get in touch with past trauma and to heal emotional blockages that can destroy peace of mind and trust.
My aim is to explain why it's spiritually important that you seek out gifted Empaths who will help you to embrace your own essence. By knowing what to avoid you will not fall victim to wolves in sheep's clothing.
Old Man Belittled Live on Talk-Back Radio
The elderly man phoned Sydney radio station 2SM
. He told how he had been sexually assaulted as a child and as a teenager. He was so traumatised that he'd been unable to live a normal life ever since. He summoned up the courage to telephone the radio talk-back line, where commentator John Laws
then proceeded to disgracefully downplay the mans feelings. There appeared to be no empathy at all, and almost zero compassion.
He was told by John Laws to put his feelings aside and go to the local pub to have a drink with his mates. He was asked why he didn't fight back against the attacker, and it appeared the caller was being blamed for being a victim of sexual assault. (listen to talk-back here
And this is not the first time John Laws has blamed the victim for being sexually abused
Spiritual Empathic Connection
As a spiritual Empath and medium I have done thousands of readings for people who have been energetically traumatised by sexual assault. The psychic scarring from unwanted sexual advances is etched into the ethereal aura. It isn't something you can easily dismiss.
Sexual assault victims, or victims of any type of assault are no more able to buffer the emotional pain of abuse, than they're able to go back in time and stop it from happening.
I can share that the majority of people who have had the misfortune to be physically abused and emotionally traumatised by a deviant, will have the scarring on their ethereal field.
A child who has been singled out by deviants will try to buffer the pain the best way they know how. The ethereal scarring will emotionally trigger many types of responses that are out of character.
The male or female child who has been a victim of sexual abuse may begin to act up. They may want to lash out at society or turn to crime as a way of shouting their emotional disapproval. They will reach out to buffer their feelings with alcohol or drugs. Or the psychological damage from the abuse could make them become reclusive and switch off. All of these attempts to buffer their pain are done as a way of surviving.
When I tune into your aura I immediately sense the state of your auric health. If you're spiritually guided to have a reading with me, your ethereal field will reveal your past traumas and emotions.
The best way of describing the heightened sense of Spiritual Empaths is to imagine you are spiritually ONE with everyone you come into contact with. Empaths believe in the ONENESS of all spiritual beings, we don't use any intuitive tools, because WE are YOU when we enter your aura to scan what ails you. Your aura melds into ours.
The clair sense
that Empaths use is clairsentience
. It is the heightened sense to energetically feel emotions, sensations and to spiritually know the truth. Genuine Empaths don't use tools like covert hypnosis, that's not what real Empaths require to spiritually diagnose the underlying blockages that stop you from living a full life.
Genuine Empaths will pick up on past ethereal scarring and tell you their findings. They will not probe you with questions to get you to tell them about past traumas or health issues.
If you encounter Empaths who ask you to tell them your past experiences etc. you're not talking with a genuine spiritual empath. It is most likely you are having a consult with someone who is uncertain what real Empaths do and will try to replicate the natural gift that Empaths carry.
Why it's Important to Know You're Consulting a True Empath
It is important to seek out naturally gifted Empaths for two reasons.
- To be spiritually supported by a compassionate being who can energetically help you to heal from energy blockages.
- To avoid any additional Ethereal trauma or stress on your aura by NLP or covert hypnosis profilers, which is spiritually dangerous because it takes away your ability to be in control of your own auric field.
The elderly man talking to John Laws desperately needed someone to help him or offer support. My heart ached to hear him say he felt worse for having called John Laws. I knew why I was being guided to help the elderly who have secretly lived with past traumas and are needing a compassionate voice to speak out for them.
A lot of older people were taught to hold back their feelings and then made to feel weak for not moving on from the past. They had no help for bullying and were told not to be pansies or girly boys if they cried or spoke up. Their real emotions were pushed down and it is no wonder they feel so isolated when it comes to reaching out and getting support. John Laws, is truly a victim of the age he lived in.
He probably knew no better than to tell his caller to forget about his pain. The man had never had a normal life. He had shut himself away from the world because he didn't know how to trust. Imagine being unable to have a normal loving relationship, to not have friends, or to shut yourself in your home away from society. Imagine how lonely and alienated you would feel. That's the life this man has lived because of the abuse he suffered as an innocent child and he deserves better than to be ignored by the media because it didn't fit the well adjusted retired stereotypes we prefer to think of.
If I have one message to media and radio stations, it is to not ignore the desperate in society who reach out for comfort. If you are ill equipped to emotionally support the callers, listen to them anyway. Show them you care and seek out support from a respected help group.
Take the extra time to record their details and show compassion for their suffering. Count your blessings that you have lived a life away from the trauma others have suffered. Stand in their shoes and realise you would want someone to treat them with respect.
There but for the grace of God, go I.
Love and light
April 11th 2015
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